Homesick mostly.
I am homesick not only for family and the couch, but for pretty much everything about my life the way it was before I left for college.
I miss spending time on the couch
I miss having my best friend Katie curled up in a fuzzy little ball on my feet
I miss being so close to my parents
I miss having Andy over and leaning against him as we watched TV and movies
I miss being inspired to make music
I miss having time and privacy to make music
I miss the golden sun that would always come through my bedroom window
I really miss Katie
I miss going on walks
I miss California
I miss water polo
I miss my high school friends
I miss senior year
I miss the familiarity of Terra Linda
I miss driving about
I miss going places with Gina on a whim when we got out of class early
I miss going out for lunch
I miss my group of girlfriends and how we had the unspoken agreement of eating lunch together
I miss how much fun those lunches would be
I miss the sunshine, the way it felt when it trickled across my face, the way it felt to be a high school senior, on top of the world, in the sunshine
I miss music
I miss it all
I've been feeling homesick and trying to place where the feeling is coming from.
I already knew that all these things were things that I missed, but I suppose it became really apparent this winter break that I'm not getting most of these things back. I'm past this stage in my life, and I guess this new stage just hasn't settled all the way in yet. It's good in a different way. It's not easy-going yet.
that's what I miss most about California, nothing was rushed in California.
Every minute of my life is scheduled here. Scheduled with great things, no doubt, but scheduled nonetheless. I'd like to get a few moments to breathe.
I remember the Spring here feels like that, so hopefully the spring will bring me my relief.
I realize that there is very little time now that I can chill on the couch in the sunshine and read, or watch tv, or just lay there.
and it breaks my heart most that even when I get those moments, they won't be with the souls I love most anymore.
Katie is gone for good and it hurts in a way I still can't understand.
Andy is gone at school now, so when he is home he has people to see too.
Mommy is a hard worker and has a scheduled life as well.
Daddy lives in the man-cave.
Three of those names I can get if I wanted. One of them I can never have again. My sweet Katie girl, I miss your generous love and your unrelenting warmth. I miss the true friendship you gave me since the day we met almost 15 years ago. I miss the hours we spent lounging in the sun together, chilling on the couch, and snuggling on the bed. I miss your sweet pink nose and your beautiful blue eyes. I miss the beautiful stripes and spots on your face. I miss the rumble of your thankful purr. I miss the trust you had in me. I miss the connection we had to each other. My best friend, forever and always. I miss you little girl. Know that my love is with you.
I miss everything from home, I just miss truly feeling home.